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Happy New Year 2009

Oh! d 12 days of xmas n d new year…..

Life happens when we are planning something else ๐Ÿ˜€

Ah! well.. loads of stuff to be done… some done.. some still pending….

At the personal front, I started by pinging those who somehow came to my life, but maybe things did not work out…. so I began on the noble philosophical thoughts that

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.
and yeah! its far more difficult to make friends than enemies- ๐Ÿ™‚ – oh! and dat too good friends ๐Ÿ™‚

Some responded, some I still await ๐Ÿ™‚

Thank you my wonderful friends… for being there!
and welcome to all the new friends ๐Ÿ™‚

Wishing you a very Happy and Prosperous New Year 2009!

Lets paint the Life’s canvas with some beautiful strokes!


P.S.: and d’oh its quite bad to be illy. chilly n taking pilly at xmas n new year’s time… d’oh! Thanks to all wonderful friends who made my “deliberate holiday” a wee-bit more enjoyable ๐Ÿ™‚


world’s happiest friends

The world’s happiest friends never have the same characters… they just have the best understanding of their differences.

People work towards what they want in life.They have to!
So simple-a-statement… but extremely true and powerful!

Never hate the times in life where you have fallen or failed.

Though hard to accept, these are the times wherein we stand up and show the world that failures dont define us.
But it is what makes us stronger.

Its in the times of sadness, and trouble, that you know who is your real, true friend…..
Am feeling blue…. want you to get well soon mom !

A date!

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie.

She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife w anted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.

That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.

“What’s wrong, are you well,” she asked? My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a sur prise invitation is a sign of bad news.

“I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you,” I responded. “Just the two of us.

She thought about it for a moment, and then said, “I would like that very much.

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed t hat she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.

She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel’s.

“I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, “she said, as she got into the car. “They can’t wait to hear about our meeting”.

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down,

I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips.

“It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,” she said.

“Then it’s time that you relax and let me return the favor,” I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation – nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other’s life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.

As we arrived at her house later, she said, “I’ll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.” I agreed.

How was your dinner date ?” asked my wife when I got home. “Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined,” I answered.

A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I did to do anything for her.

Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined.

An attached note said: “I paid this bill in advance. I wasn’t sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates – one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.”

At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: “ I LOVE YOU!” and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve.

Nothing in life is more important than God and your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till “some other time.”


Pass this along to everyone with an aging parent, to a child, to an adult, to anyone with a parent. Here’s hoping today is better than yesterday and tomorrow.

Celebrate being a Woman!

Wishing you a happy “International Women’s Day – March 8, 2008” …..
Be an inpiration…. like u always are
Be lovely….
like u always are
Be helpful…..
like u always are
Be caring….
like u always are
Be Sharing…..
like u always are
Be loving…… …. …..But you are always na ๐Ÿ™‚Be whatever……. but be yourself…. O! lovely woman …..
Make yourself feel special ๐Ÿ™‚


Woman…..the mother
the wife
the friend
the sister
besides these….
all the lovely relations she follows to make you what you are…
and to make herself what she is….
all in all… to complete each other…..

I love this cute Johnson’s baby ๐Ÿ™‚

Ok…. find more info at http://www.internationalwomensday.com/

A nice poem I found on the web…
I am a girl.
I am an expression of beauty, joy, and love.
I have the right, the power and the ability, to create a beautiful, joyful, and peaceful world for myself and others.
I have a body, but i am not my body.
I have a face, but i am not my face. I am the most important thing in the world to me.
I am love in motion.
I am the light of the world.
I can create.
I can make a mistake.
I can create something beautiful in all that i do.
I deserve the best.
I give my best.
I do my best to always take care of me. I am a girl.
I am growing into a woman.
I am the joy the world is waiting for.
Iyanla Vanzant, on self-affirmation for young women Beauty is one of the rare things that do not lead to doubt of God.
Jean Anouil
n completing this with a stanza from “Aw well u know well songie”
To understand her
Hear every thought
See every dream
And give her wings when she wants to fly